“They Really Wanted to Kiss My Baby” #no

While it may be tempting for relatives to kiss a newborn baby as a gesture of love, it’s crucial to establish boundaries, especially if they are sick or have an active cold sore. Newborns have immature immune systems that are not yet equipped to fight off infections, making them particularly vulnerable to illnesses that might seem minor in adults.

Cold sores are caused by the herpes simplex virus (HSV-1), which can be extremely dangerous for infants. If the virus is transmitted to a newborn, it can lead to a serious condition called neonatal herpes, potentially causing severe complications such as seizures, brain damage, or even death. Similarly, illnesses like the common cold or flu can escalate quickly in newborns, leading to respiratory distress or other severe issues.

Politely but firmly explaining these risks to relatives is essential. Let them know that avoiding direct contact, like kissing the baby, is not a rejection of their affection but a necessary precaution to protect the baby's health. Encouraging other ways to show love, such as gentle hand-holding or speaking softly to the baby, can help relatives feel included while ensuring the baby’s safety.

#parenting #health #newborn #babies